Thursday, July 14, 2011

Four Miscarriages Later...I still want an Americano with a Splash of Heavy Whipping Cream...

Sometimes the truth sucks. Sometimes life sucks.  But guess what...I will always be that person that still wants her Tall Americano with a splash of heavy whipping cream.
If you have read my post about 2.5 years ago, you have seen that I have been through some tough times.  http://tribalancecoaching.blogspot.com/2009/01/4-months-have-passed.html.


Long story short:
  • Oct. 2008:  1st Miscarriage
  • November 2008: Dad passed away
  • January 2009: 2nd Miscarriage
Updated version:
  • Same as above
  • April 2011: Found out I was pregnant and 3rd miscarriage within 2 weeks
  • May 2011: Found out I was pregnant and 4th miscarriage after 8 weeks
Where do I begin? What do you say? Do you tell me that "Everything will be OK?" Do you ask me "How am I doing?" Do you tell me that "Things happen for reason"? or do you say..."Let's go have lunch or go grab coffee or go to the pool or go tubing down the Comal River."

Maybe I haven't told many people about what I have been going through because I keep my guard up. But what I need right now are my friends, family and some love and an Americano to get me through these hard times.

So, if you have a friend or a family member or whoever going through some hard times...ask them what they need...ask them what you can do for them.  Honestly, maybe all they need is an Americano or breakfast at Twin Sisters (http://www.twinsistersbakeryandcafe.com/).

Thank you to those friends, who grabbed an Americano with me, breakfast at Twin Sisters, hanging by the pool, lunch wherever and tubing down the Comal.  I am still alive.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

You are loved. Whatever you need I'm here!! Kisses, Analia